In 2013 I had the opportunity to give a TED talk. It’s one of those things that you say yes to because you’re honored and then immediately realize you’re going to have to work your butt off to not embarrass yourself. They ask you to give your ‘talk of a lifetime’, so the stakes feel high. I guess when I got down to it I didn’t feel like an “expert” at music, but I did feel like I knew how to take a punch and still enjoy working. A useful quality not just for musicians but for anyone working any job. As such that was my goal, to provide tangible strategies for increasing job satisfaction. How to keep coming back. How to say “yes” even when “yes” feels scary. It’s better to be at the bottom of a ladder you want to climb then the middle of one you don’t.
My pen. I can (and do) use it to write it pretty much anywhere. I do occasionally write with the laptop, but if I have a pen in my pocket I know I’ll never be bored. At this point, I have accepted that I have certain limitations as a music that I’m less inclined to break through. I’m not proud of that, but in the spirit of going where the light is, I have endless passion and inspiration for words, for writing and sharing ideas.
Hmmnnn…It’s an interesting question. I’d love to tell myself to really really pay attention to everyone you meet. Get to know them on a human level without regard for what they can do for you. At the end of the day, we’re all part of a very small industry. I did this to some degree but I would have liked to have done it even better. Also and this is what I’d tell myself if I only had ONE thing to tell…Enjoy it. This industry isn’t something that I can control and it hasn’t necessarily swung in favor of organic album based music, so if you’re going to be releasing albums, you need to enjoy the process of making them. Trusting one’s gut and trying to avoid the people with lousy moral compasses are valuable skills to develop, but no matter what happens it’s such an adventure, that I’d love to just tell the version of me in my 20’s to ENJOY IT!
Photo by: Will Byington

